Cultivating Leadership

Over the last two decades I have consulted to,have had such little use!
provided workshops for, and delivered keynoteManagemento Commandingo Solving problemso
presentations on leadership to a variety ofDirecting and controllingo Seeing people as they
restaurant chains and individual restaurantareo Empoweringo Operatingo Pushingo Heroic
managers. I continue to be surprised by themanagero Quick fix to symptons
general confusion between management andLeadershipo Coachingo Enabling others to solve
leadership. Managers push, leaders pull. Managersproblemso Teaching and engagingo Developing
try to light a fire under people, leaders stoke thepeople into what they can beo Partneringo
fire within. Managers command, leaders inspire.Improvingo Pullingo Facilitative leadero Search for
Managers use position power, leaders usesystemic root causes
persuasion power. Managers control, leadersGrowing Spaces
foster commitment.I enjoy perennial gardening in our yard. As I have
For some reason the contrast between extremetended our gardens over the years, I am
management and leadership seems to becontinually struck by how some plants will do well
especially sharp in the restaurant business.in some locations and terribly elsewhere in the
Management tends to be at the extremes edgesgarden. Each spring and fall I move plants around
in this industry. It often involves fear andto match their preferences for particular soil, wind,
intimidation. How can fearful and angry servingand sun conditions, as well as their proximity to
staff turnaround and provide great service?other plants. At times I have been pleasantly
Research clearly shows that they don't. As Donsurprised by how some lackluster plants have
Cherry might say, it's not "rocket surgery."suddenly thrived in a new location better suited to
Unhappy and poorly served staff passes howtheir needs. Since each perennial has a different
they are treated to their customers. In today'sbloom time and length, one of the gardening
workplace, a management style of pushing peoplechallenges is to keep color spread throughout the
around often pushes the highest performers rightgarden from early spring to late fall. It's one
out the door.reason I never "cheat" by using annuals that
Maybe it's just because I was raised on a farm,bloom all summer long. A constant chore is cutting
but whenever I hear managers use the termoff old blooms to encourage new ones and
"head count" (and I hear it a lot), it grates on mepruning plants that are becoming overgrown.
like fingernails scratching a blackboard. WhenManagers often use a "one size fits all" approach
managers say things like "we've got to reduceand try to "mass grow" people. Leaders work
our head count" I immediately think of cattle. Inwith people to discover where they are best able
the community where I grew up, farmers wouldto thrive and succeed. Like a good gardener,
ask each other questions like "how many headleaders treat each person in their organization as
are you milking?" when talking about cows in aan individual with his or her own unique aspirations,
dairy herd. People were never referred to thisstrengths, and characteristics. Leaders then work
way.to put people in the best place for them to thrive
Despite all their pious declarations about theand succeed. They mix and match team
importance of people, leadership, and values, farmembers to build a well-rounded team that can
too many managers treat people in theirshow its best colors according to the season - or
operations with about as much care as theyis best suited to the current operating conditions
would attach to fixtures, equipment, orof the organization or the team. Leaders tend to
décor. They are just one more set ofeach person on their team and coach them to
assets to be managed. These just happen to bechange habits or prune overgrown methods that
breathing and have skin wrapped around them.may prevent further growth. They are
Managers who view "their people" as property areconsistently moving team members around to
cold and dispassionate. In fact, they would makeavoid overcrowding and to bring out the best in
perfect donors for heart transplants - their heartseach person.